The Carefully Crafted Opener dude : Copyandpasted forced but slightly amusing intro Nonsense slightly nostalgic question asked to get a response girl person messaging: Polite laugh Slightly witty but also forced response to question You dude : Similar response to yours but slightly different to create a talking point girl: Addresses talking point Dude: Im also addressing the talking point again, leaving nothing to talk about These two never talk again  





3 The Acquaintance Match girl: Haha, opening message indicating the awkwardness of this situation, but intentionally not clarifying whether this was a romantic interest or recognition match Hoping you will guy persona messaging: A joke to also avoid addressing whether Im actually romantically interested, in case youre not These two interact inperson as usual and never talk about this interaction again